There’s a reason behind why at a certain age people
will say ‘there are a lot of things in life which don’t really matter anymore.’
That’s when u learnt how to appreciate little things in life, cherishing every
happy moments in life with the people who matter the most to you. And it’s also
at this point, no matter how people insult you or treat you badly, it doesn't
matter to you anymore because they have got nothing to do with your life.
We’re
human beings trying to be perfect in this world of imperfections. The harder we
try, the more we’ll fail. Nobody is perfect in this world. The fact is, we all
are created differently in this world, keep in mind that, only YOU have your
very own unique personality, you certainly can’t find another you in this whole
wide world with the population of 7 billion people! So, just be YOU, the one
and only who’s wonderfully and fearfully made. Be yourself, as long as you don’t
do anything which hurts others. There are 4 kinds of personalities in this
world, and you can’t expect everyone to have the same personality as you. The
way people do things are also different, hence, no matter how well we think we’re
doing our things, we can’t please everyone in this world. So, just chill out
and relax. People out there will like to give opinions and sometimes in a harsh
manner, scolding you, putting all the blame on you and stuffs. Yes, we've to be
still open to opinions and try to make things better if the opinions are useful.
But, don’t let that change you. Stay the same and be merry.
There
are always ups and downs in life. Nobody in this world don’t have to undergo
hardships. Just like our body defense system, as our body is attacked
by viruses, our body will build up the defense system to kill all the viruses which
have entered into our body, we get immune to that virus after that, our immune
system becomes stronger after that. Hardships in life work the same, we go
through the storms, we passed through it, and next time when we face the same storm,
we know how to go through it again. ‘What doesn't kill you makes you stronger!’
Just like
recently I get too much of scolding from one of my ridiculous lecturer in
college, he is a known lecturer who just scolds people without any reason. Nowadays,
I don’t get upset anymore after his scolding because I’m immune to it already, I
just treated it as a music that comes and goes away.
Life
is short. Hence be merry and live everyday meaningfully and happily. Don’t let
that one person out of 7 billion people ruin your day. It’s not worth it. =)
Life is beautiful! =)
